Being there by Sangeeta Guha

We talk about organic food a lot nowadays. It should be a part of your meals and your so called fad diets. We think that eating the right organic food would give us nourishment and keep our health perfect. Well, I wonder and wish to keep our mental equilibrium and promote love, camaraderie and make someone feel blessed in love and care. Can’t we have organic minds and hearts too?  

Organic…That’s supposed to be directly from nature. Organic…That’s supposed to be true to your nature.  No preservatives and no add ons…Simple, pure and true to your being. That’s organic. Organic as in something that’s inbuilt inside you. No fake emotions, no oratory speeches with no soul stirring. Organic relationships as in something you feel the instant connect when your heart touches another… No extra wired or geared accessorised connections. Pure call from one soul to another. Pure love rendered direct and straight. Pure emotionally connecting!! That’s organic… 

You guys must be thinking that as usual, this crazy girl is again quirky, but believe me I mean it. Can’t we have organic relationships? Can’t we be there for one another organically?. Why Can’t we be honest and sincere in our approach when we smile, talk, act and mostly when we speak. It’s so very easy to call each one darling, sweetheart, bestie, dost, friend etc etc but what baffles me is the synthetic behaviour after that. Are we really there when someone needs us? Does our need of a person ends, the moment our transaction ends?. You know quite the same way the ATM machine stops talking to you once the transaction is complete.  It throws back your card towards you and says Ta da…bye bye…Transaction complete.  

Life is beautiful we say but is our life truly enriched and nourished?. When someone looks at us and we can see that they want to connect, they want to talk, they want to spend some good time with us and just wants us to say in affirmative and we come up with an excuse like I am busy or I am in work mode or come on, don’t be a sissy, you can handle it.  

Just imagine this world where we all are actually living in, like living in a desert. All of us are locked in our synthetic private spaces and our need to belong is only when we are bored and when we look out for company. Our need is fulfilled and the few selfies and FB postings that we have been here and wined and dined together is the be all and end all. Instead what about knocking at your Mon Ami’s door and telling Holla Amigo… Brew in some coffee… Let’s talk…lets share… Let’s Be there for each other. Trust me, once you try this, you will feel organically nourished within yourself. The smiles and hopes you will share and the love and hugs you will organically give each other will nourish and replenish you like no other. The transaction would say then God sends his blessing. When are you going back and knocking at heaven’s door?

Be an organic farmer. Nourish and replenish a few souls. The lonely might be brewing the coffee alone.  Give them a call and say Holla Amigo…. let’s plant in some good plants of good times together. I am there… Coming to you… I am there if you ever need me and I am there even when you don’t need me to be there to silently sit next to you and share the sun and shade.  

Be an organic farmer!!  Plant happiness and smiles! Be there.

Signing off ,
Sangzz from her Shell!!